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Wednesday, July 1, 2026

"Things Every Man Should Keep in His Car"

 


I keep most of the same articles in my truck all the time, except on road trips, I carry some Freedom Seed dispensers and replacement seeds. extra poncho's umbrella's, a change of clothes and a jacket plus some tools.  Keep in mind, I drive an F150, 

and that truck has cubbyhole's all over it and you don't realize it.  Besides the Lifehammer, I keep a few extra lock blades and dead battery holders er flashlights in the truck and some of those "worklights" that have a bungee cord on them.  Oh and yeah and cop grade OC Spray.  I rather incapacitate someone first rather than ventilate them.

     I shamelessly clipped this from "Art of Manliness"




When I was growing up, I noticed that my father kept his car well-stocked with supplies. A lot of the equipment was for his job busting poachers as a game warden, but most of the things were for emergency situations that could happen to anyone. And there were plenty of times when my dad was able to put those supplies to work.

Be it a maintenance issue or a snowstorm, keeping the following items in your vehicle can save you time and discomfort, and perhaps even your very life, should an emergency arise. Obviously, the necessity of some items depends on the environment in which you live/are driving through (you don’t need an ice scraper in Tampa) and the season (though it’s best just to stock this stuff and keep it stocked, rather than removing/adding things as the seasons change).

1. Paper maps. Sometimes — okay, plenty of times — Google Maps or Waze doesn’t want to cooperate. And if you don’t have service, their reliability is of no import anyway. It’s always a good idea to keep paper maps handy of the areas you’ll be driving through.

2. Snacks/MREs. You never know when you’ll be stranded for long periods of times in your car. And depending on where you are, you could be dozens of miles from the closest source of help. Keep some MREs or granola/power bars in the back of your car to munch on while you wait for a tow truck to come, or to sustain you for a long walk to a gas station to call for help.

3. Cell phone charger/extra battery. Cell phones, and their batteries, are notoriously unreliable and quick-draining in emergency scenarios. It’s like they know when you need them most. Build some redundancy into your car’s emergency kit by keeping both a charger, and an extra battery. No excuses; they’re cheap these days.

4. LifeHammer. Should an accident trap you in your car, this rescue tool could save your life in a couple ways. It has a seat belt cutter, a steel hammer head that easily breaks side windows, and a glow-in-the-dark pin for easy retrieval in the dark. Every car should have one easily accessible!

5. Flashlight. Good for providing light at nighttime when 1) putting on a spare tire, 2) jump starting another car, or 3) exchanging insurance information with the clueless driver who rear-ended you at a stop light. Get a Maglite and you can also thump would-be carjackers in the head with it.

6. Portable air compressor. When your tire is leaking but hasn’t totally blown out, instead of putting on a spare, you can use a portable air compressor to get back on the road. The compressor fills your tire up enough to allow you to drive to a repair shop to get it fixed. It plugs right into your cigarette lighter. Bonus use: no more paying 75 cents to fill up your tires at stingy gas stations.

7. Windshield wiper fluid. Few things are as indispensable as wiper fluid. Dirty windshield, no fluid, and wet, dirty roads? Get used to stopping every 10 minutes to clean the windshield. Always have some in the car for when you inevitably run out and need it most.

8. Roadside flares. When pulled over on the side of the road, you’re basically a sitting duck, hoping that other drivers don’t clip you. It’s especially dangerous at night. Ensure that you and those around you are visible when you pull over by using road flares, or at least a reflective triangle. The old school flaming flares seem to be harder to find these days as people switch to the LED variety.

9. Jumper cables. You walk out to your car after a long day of work, stick the key into the ignition, give it a turn, and…click, click, click. Crap! You then look up and notice you left the dome light on all day. It happens to the best of us. Car batteries die, so be ready with a set of jumper cables. And even if you never suffer a dead battery, it’s always good to have a set of jumper cables so you can help a damsel (or dude) in distress who needs their car jumped.

10. Tow strap. Get your car unstuck from anything with a tow strap. Attach one end of the strap to the front of the car that you want to pull and the other to the hitch on the back of your car. The stranded driver stays in the dead car, puts it in neutral, and gets freed. Easy as that!

11. Water. For when you’re stranded in Death Valley in the middle of the hottest heat wave on record…or for any other time your car decides to break down on you. Also for when you’ve been on the trail and are parched because you didn’t pack enough in your hiking pack. Always keep a few bottles handy in the trunk.

12. First aid kit. Whether you’re cleaning up a head wound filled with glass shards or fixing a boo boo on your two-year-old, it’s good to have a first aid kit. You can always buy one, but putting together your own in an Altoids tin is more fun.

13. Blankets. Blankets have uses that go beyond emergency situations. It’s always good to have a blanket in the car for snuggling with your gal while you cheer for your team on a cold fall night or for laying it on the ground for a picnic. Get the space-saving (but not very romantic) emergency Mylar variety, or something a little classier like the Paria from Rumpl.

14. Fire extinguisher. Car fires can be especially dangerous because of the flammable liquids coursing through their systems. Keep an extinguisher in the car that can be used not only for your own emergencies, but for others who might be in danger as well. An auto extinguisher is useful, as it will be rated for putting out car-specific fires that are fueled by gasoline and oil.

15. Shovel. There are a couple of instances where a folding shovel might come in handy. The first is when you get stuck in the snow or ice. You can use the shovel to dig some snow out and place some dirt under the tire to get more traction. The second situation is when a car tire gets stuck in a hole or something. You can use the shovel to dig about and create some ramps to help get your car unstuck. Also, it can be used as an improvised weapon.

Winter/Snow-Specific Items

16. Kitty litter. Kitty litter? For traveling with your cats and they need a potty break? Hardly. Kitty litter is extremely useful as a traction device when you’re stuck in the snow or ice after a skid gone wrong. It’s not usually that you’re buried in snow that keeps your car from moving, but the slickness of the surface you’re trying to move on. Throw a handful of kitty litter in front of the tires, and they’ll have some traction to help get you on the road again.

17. Multi-wick candles. If you’re stranded in a broken-down car in the winter, you might need more than just a blanket. An actual heat source will come in mighty handy. Have a multi-wick candle (the single wick kind don’t provide adequate warmth) on hand (and matches!); it can keep your car warm for quite awhile. Candles are expensive, so make your own on the cheap (and you save even more money going scentless).

18. Ice scraper. Don’t be the chump who’s out there scraping their windshield with a credit card at 5AM in the morning. A good ice scraper will set you back just a few bucks from most any convenience store, and it will make clearing your windshield much easier and much faster.

19. Hat and gloves. Along with a blanket, make sure your head and hands stay toasty warm too. The thicker the better here; you aren’t going for fashion, but survival.

20. Tire chains. Not only are tire chains handy in wintery mountain passes, they’re actually required in some states. Don’t get stuck in the mountains; don’t get a ticket for not having chains.

Friday, May 8, 2026

"5 fast food that are high in protein and less than 600 calories"

 I shamelessly cribbed this from "Art of manliness", I am losing weight again and when the fast food munchies hit, I get tired of eating "rabbit food" I saw this and it helps keep the craving in check, and portion control.


If you’re trying to lose weight, one of the challenges you’ll face is what to do about those times when you find yourself at a fast-food restaurant.

The offerings at these establishments are typically incredibly high in calories. A Big Mac meal at McDonald’s can set you back 1,300 calories. Damn! If your calorie goal for the day is 2,400 calories, that’s more than half your daily calories in a single meal.

The typical advice for people losing weight is to just avoid fast-food restaurants altogether. And with some preparing, thinking ahead, and good decision-making, you can accomplish that most of the time.

But not 100% of the time. Sometimes, life throws a wrench in your plans.

Maybe you’re on a road trip, and your friends decide to stop at Carl’s Jr. for lunch.

Maybe your kid’s soccer team decided to go out to dinner to Chick-fil-A after the game.

Maybe you’re just really pressed for time and need to grab something fast at a drive-thru on the way from work to another engagement.

What to do?

Well, what if I told you you don’t have to choose between convenience and your fitness goals? You can have your fast-food burger and eat it too—all while staying on track with your weight loss.

When you want to lose weight, you want to choose foods that are lower in calories and higher in satiating, muscle-building protein.

Thankfully, most fast-food restaurants now offer options that meet this criteria. With a bit of creativity, you can easily select meals at pretty much all the major fast-food restaurants that will give you 30+ grams of protein (which is a good minimum goal for a meal) and only clock in at around 600 calories.

Below, we provide some suggestions for meals that meet these metrics that you can get at five popular fast-food restaurants. One thing to keep in mind is that while you can reduce the calories in your fast-food orders, it’s hard to reduce the amount of sodium. These are going to be sodium bombs. So they’re not great for everyday dining, but they’ll do in a pinch.

Whether you’re looking to shed a few pounds or maintain your hard-earned gains, this guide will show you how to navigate the pitfalls of fast-food menus and stay on track with your goals.

General Guidelines to Keep Your Fast-Food Meals Lower in Calories

Before we get into specific meals, here are some general guidelines to follow that will allow you to keep your meals lower in calories, regardless of the fast-food establishment you visit:

  • Food tracking apps like MyFtinessPal are your friends. I use the app all the time when I’m at fast-food restaurants. Quickly look up the calorie and macro count of foods and piece together your meal with that info.
  • Choose grilled over fried meats.
  • Choose lean proteins. While you can still enjoy a beef burger, protein sources like turkey or chicken breast generally have fewer calories.
  • Ask for extra protein. Adding extra protein, like extra meat, can help increase satiety while keeping calories low.
  • Skip the fries. If you’re looking for a side, get fruit or salad instead. Also, hot take: fries aren’t that good anyway!
  • Skip the high-fat sauces, dressings, and condiments. Ask for lower-calorie options instead.
  • Load up on veggies. Satiety is premised in part on volume; calorically dense foods won’t fill you up and will leave you feeling hungry. To increase volume and nutrition, add low-calorie veggies to your meals like extra lettuce, tomatoes, and onions.
  • Choose water or unsweetened drinks like diet sodas.

Finally, don’t be afraid to enjoy yourself with a no-holds-barred high-calorie fast-food meal every now and then. I love getting a double cheeseburger on occasion. You can just adjust your macros and calories accordingly and eat less the rest of the day. Or just chalk it up to an anomalous indulgence, and get back to your diet the next day. You don’t have to eat perfectly 100% of the time to still lose weight and stay healthy.

Fast-Food Meals That Are 600 Calories or Less With More than 30 Grams of Protein

McDonald’s

McDonald’s is a tricky place to get a high-protein meal that’s low in calories. They used to offer grilled chicken and salad options here in the United States, but they got rid of them back in 2020.

You can still get a meal that’s a little more than 500 calories and 30 grams of protein by pairing a McDouble burger with an order of McNuggets.

McDouble + 4-Count McNuggets

  • On the burger, ask for no cheese and extra pickles, lettuce, and onion for added volume.

Total calories: 530 (If you don’t eat the burger’s bun, you can knock off an additional 100 calories.)
Protein: 30 grams
Fat: 27 grams
Carbs: 43 grams

Taco Bell

Do you want to Live Más but without all the extra calories? Try the Cantina Chicken Bowl at Taco Bell. Choose grilled chicken instead of roasted chicken to keep the calories down but the protein high.

Cantina Grilled Chicken Bowl

  • Ask for three servings of grilled chicken.
  • Ask for it with no rice and no avocado ranch sauce
  • Keep the black beans, cheese, and low-fat sour cream.
  • Ask for extra lettuce, pico de gallo, and cabbage for added volume.
  • Use hot sauce packets to add flavor.

Total calories: 460
Protein: 56 grams
Fat: 18 grams
Carbs: 20 grams

Chick-fil-A

Boy, do I love Chick-fil-A. My usual go-to is the spicy chicken sandwich with extra pickles. I usually get two of them as a meal.

If I know I’ll be having Chick-fil-A for dinner, I’ll cut back on my other meals during the day to make room in my macro budget for those two spicy chicken sandwiches.

But sometimes we have nights where we have Chick-fil-A unexpectedly and getting my regular two-fisted sandwich order would put me way over my calorie count for the day.

Thankfully, Chick-fil-A offers some tasty high-protein, lower-calorie grilled options.

Here’s an order with just 420 calories and a whopping 50 grams of protein.

Grilled Chicken Cool Wrap + 4-Count Grilled Chicken Nuggets

  • Use buffalo sauce to add some low-calorie flavor.

Total calories: 420
Protein: 50 grams
Fat: 15 grams
Carbs: 30 grams

Panda Express

A lot of take-out Chinese food is loaded with fat. But you can get a solid meal at Panda Express that has 600 total calories and 72(!) grams of protein.

Plate Meal: 2 servings of Grilled Teriyaki Chicken + 1 serving of Super Greens

Total Calories: 600
Protein: 72 grams
Fat: 30.5
Carbs: 25 grams

Subway

Sandwiches are a great fast-food option if you’re looking for something high in protein, but lower in calories. At pretty much every sandwich chain, you can create a custom sandwich that’s loaded with satiating, lean meats like chicken or turkey and plenty of filling, high-volume veggies.

Subway isn’t the tastiest of the sandwich chains, in my opinion (we’re bigger fans of Jersey Mike’s around here), but its outposts are ubiquitous. Here’s an example of a nutritionally solid sammie to get there:

Grilled Chicken Sandwich

  • 6-inch artisanal bread
  • 3 servings of grilled chicken
  • 2 servings of provolone
  • Lettuce, tomato, onion (ask for extra)
  • Sweet teriyaki sauce

Total calories: 540
Protein: 70 grams
Fat: 16 grams
Carbs: 47 grams

Allowing for fast food in your weight loss journey isn’t just about damage control—it’s about creating a sustainable strategy for long-term success.

By being flexible with your diet, you’ll be more likely to stick with it in the long run. Research shows that a flexible approach to nutrition, allowing yourself to enjoy a variety of foods—yes, even fast food—can lead to better adherence and, ultimately, better results.

Wednesday, January 21, 2026

"So You Been Laid Off...5 things to do Right away"

 

  I got this from "Art of Manliness, I will Interject in blue my experiences to add to the Author.  I will add this part, When I got hired at AAP"Atlanta Assembly Plant" I was told that unless I screw up, this will be the last job I will ever will have until I retire, well 11+ years later I was walking out the door for the last time.  It was the 2nd time I was laid off, the first time was in 1992, I was working at "Kawneer" as a Door fabricator, I was single, so I scrambled and found another job. Pizza delivery.  the 2nd time I got laid off, was Ford Motor Company, I was married and had a 3 year old son and the search was more desperate because this was during the "Great Recession" and I was fortunate that my present employer hired me after I was searching for a job/career since February 2006 and I got hired 2nd quarter 2007.  I worked various Pizza jobs holding the wolf at bay during this time.  I don't hate "Ford Motor Company"for what transpired, they were in a bad situation.



    This is inside my Ford "Toolbox", that I have in my garage now, you can chase the link that shows the transformation.

   The Article Follows



I'm in my late thirties and have been laid off twice in my working years. This is not an unusual experience, especially in the post-COVID era, which some have termed a time of “forever layoffs.” Nearly half of all working adults have been laid off at some point in their career and most working employees are worried about layoffs on a regular basis.

The first time it happened to me was in 2012 when the small marketing agency that I’d been with for only a year went belly up. I was young, didn’t have many responsibilities in life just yet, and the job hunt went quite well; I secured a new gig within a handful of weeks. The second time I was laid off was in 2024, as part of a larger set of cuts at a billion-dollar tech company I had been with for about three years. Twelve years after my first layoff, not only was the economy wildly different, but I had a family, three young kids, and a mortgage to worry about. It took almost a year of ups, downs, and freelance projects to get back into comfortable employment. Those two instances ended up being pretty different experiences, and yet a similar set of tactics helped me get through both times.  

There will inevitably be a flood of anxiety after you’ve been laid off. But once your heart rate has calmed down and you’re able to move beyond panic mode, do these five things to get yourself in a good position to survive and move forward.  

Nail Down Your Financial and Insurance Logistics  

As hard as it can be in those first days after being let go, you need to start thinking right away about your finances and health insurance. It can be hard to do so without catastrophizing, but it’s important to think clearly and strategically about how you and your family will weather the financial unpredictability of the coming weeks and months.

Insurance

First, consider your insurance situation. Be sure that you have information from HR about when your benefits lapse — it can be immediate, but sometimes it’s a few weeks or even months down the road.

If you’re carrying the household’s insurance and have the option to move to a spouse’s insurance plan, definitely go that route, even if it’s not for the long-term. Having coverage is better than not having coverage.

If that’s not an option, COBRA is a federal government program that allows you to receive the same exact insurance you had with your former employer, for a period of 18-36 months after being let go. The major difference is that you’ll have to pay the entire cost of the premiums. If you’re in a field with good benefits, it may be exorbitantly expensive to pay out of pocket. In that case, your state’s insurance marketplace is where to look next. It can be confusing if you’ve never dealt with it before; your former employer’s HR department may be able to help you find a broker to help with that process. Don’t hesitate to ask them these types of questions.  

Finances

You also have to think realistically about your budget. How much do you have in your bank account? How much severance are you receiving, if any? How much do you have in emergency savings or other accessible accounts (that is, stocks or other investments that don’t have withdrawal penalties, rather than retirement accounts)? Make sure you know exactly how long you can make it without your income.

After Ford, I lived below my means and carried little or no credit card debt, and paid cash for my cars or if I got a note, paid them off real early in case I got laid off.

Next, apply for government unemployment benefits. Each state has their own online portal (and set of rules). You’ll be entitled to a percentage of your previous wages (typically 50%) for an entire year. It’s a hassle, and there are a lot of forms, including weekly online check-ins about your job search, but there’s no reason to not take advantage of unemployment checks. After all, your taxes have been paying into that fund for as long as you’ve been working!

Reach Out and Start Networking

Time to share some harsh truth: In today’s job market, it’s nearly impossible to just apply for a job that you found online and get invited to a screening interview, let alone make it all the way through the lengthy multi-interview + work test process that pervades modern job hunting. In the vast majority of cases, networking will get you farther than scrolling job listings online. It bears repeating: while networking does not necessarily have the same immediate ROI as applying for random jobs, it will net you greater returns in the long run.

For me, I used Monster, any and all resources, my present employer actually called me because they were looking for a particular skillset and my resume had it.

In particular, it’s worth reaching out to your weak ties — those loose connections you made in college or through work or church. You aren’t quite friends with these folks, but know them well enough that reaching out in this scenario isn’t weird. Go creeping on LinkedIn to see where folks work; if a company seems interesting, there’s no harm in sending a message like:

“Hi there! I know it’s been a while since we’ve talked. I hope you’re doing well — I loved seeing that family picture on Facebook. I wanted to reach out and say hello because I was recently let go from my job of five years. I’m trying to get a feel for what the market is like and what’s out there and would really appreciate a 30-minute chat if you’re willing. If the timing isn’t right, no worries, but it’d be great to catch up a bit.”

If they agree to chat, don’t make it just about finding a job at their company; it really should be a broader focus on if they know of anyone or anything helpful. If you talk and something seems like a good fit, they’ll let you know. (After you talk, make sure to send a thank you note or message!)

Beyond those weak ties, also do some fresh networking both online and in your community. With a quick internet search, you’ll be able to find digital and IRL networks of folks in your industry. Again, the ROI is not always apparent, but genuine networking — with the goal of just getting to know people and getting your name and face out there — always has a way of paying off in the long run.  

P.S. This is a great reason to never burn bridges on your way out of any job.

Set Some “Working” Hours

In my observations, it seems that there are two types of responses to being out of work: either you can’t seem to get off the couch to do anything or you turn that anxiety into a kind of hyperactivity, spending every waking moment on the phone or computer. Both of those approaches have problems that can be remedied by doing your best to set daily “working” hours.

Don’t try to replicate a full work week; set aside 3-4 hours per day for networking, job hunting, building up your skills, and the like. The work of finding work is mentally taxing (and, let’s be honest, often defeating) in a way that a “real” job is not. There’s no psychological security at all; in fact, you’re mostly dealing with feelings of existential dread the whole time. As such, your willpower gets depleted rather quickly. After half a day or so, you’ll experience diminishing returns and it won’t be worth the additional mental energy to keep going. You can only scroll through so many job listings and write so many cover letters in a day before you start to feel your soul escaping your body.

Conduct Career Experiments

My initial response to being let go was, naturally enough, to apply for positions similar to what I just held. That makes total sense and should absolutely be your first plan of attack. Unless you have a sizeable financial cushion, it’s not a bad idea to do this even if you plan on changing careers — it may make for a nice fallback should that other route not work out as quickly as you hoped.

Within a few weeks, though, it was easy to blast through applying for the roles that most matched my resume. After that, I took the liberty of getting a little more creative and looking for roles that I wasn’t perfectly qualified for but suited my interests a bit more. Even though my career has been in online media and marketing, when I was laid off in 2024 I branched out and had a couple interviews outside my comfort zone, including with a small coffee roaster and a large airplane manufacturer. I even considered going back to school. I didn’t end up doing any of those things, but I thought long and hard about them and did learn a lot about what it would be like to jump industries, to start at the bottom of a workplace food chain, and the practicalities of starting fresh.

If you’ve ever thought of doing something different with your career, perhaps being let go is the spark you need to jumpstart that process. Don’t be afraid to look outside of what you know, especially if it’s an industry that’s been hit hard with layoffs (perhaps making it all that much harder to get a new job in that field).  

Do Your Best to Relax

One of the things that bothered me most — and which happened both of the times I was laid off — was hearing from folks about how I now had some time to sleep in, relax a bit, and enjoy “funemployment.” As if! There was no way I could sleep in or really even remotely enjoy myself while in the midst of desperately trying to find a way to replace that income as soon as possible. It’s very hard to relax when you’ve been laid off versus when you’ve left a job on your own terms, even if you’ve been lucky enough to receive severance pay.

That said, each time it’s happened to me, I forced myself to at least do some activities that would normally bring me joy — even if they didn’t immediately do so in the moment. For me, it was hiking/walking every day, reading, and doing some extra cooking/baking. While there’s a time and place for some true vegging out with Netflix, it’s best to shoot for a more active type of relaxation that comes from using your body and brain in a way that you get deeper fulfillment from. Regular exercise should especially be part of that routine. If you just lounge around on the couch all day, you can quickly fall into a pattern that’s hard to get out of.

It’s likely going to be hard to truly relax and let yourself recharge, but at least go through the motions. Some of it will stick and you’ll at least build up a good routine of caring for your mind and body while without work.

The job market and the process of finding work after a layoff is unpredictable. I simply cannot say that it will all work out in a timely manner. But if you follow these steps, you’ll at least have a better setup for success than you would have otherwise. Best of luck out there!

Friday, December 12, 2025

"How To Pick A Lock"

 Yesterday I had posted "50" Stocking Stuffers for guys that I got from the "Art of Manliness" website, well I was checking out that link I had posted  and I started diving deep into the "Lock picking" one, soo much that I ordered me a set of tools for educational use mind you.  I used to be really good at getting into cars in the 80's and 90's, but I haven't tried in 20+ years even though my Dad gave me his slim Jim from when he was a cop.  Just haven't felt the need.  Funny that, LOL  


    Again I shamelessly clipped this from "Art of Manliness"


Picking a lock.

Some of you might be thinking, “Brett, why should I learn how to pick a lock if I don’t plan on breaking into people’s homes?”

Great question.

There are a few good reasons why law-abiding citizens should learn how to pick a lock:

Lock picking opens your eyes to the “illusion of security.” We all lock our doors to keep our loved ones safe at night and to secure our possessions during the day. After I picked my first lock within two minutes of learning how to do it, I realized that locks don’t really do much except provide the illusion of security. Locks make us feel safe, but if someone really wanted to get in your house, they could easily pick the lock on your front door. If they didn’t know how to do that, they could find another way in. You can’t just rely on a lock to keep you and your family safe. You need to utilize other tools and tactics and create multiple layers of security.

Realizing how little locks actually keep you and your stuff safe was both terrifying and surprisingly heartwarming. Terrifying because I saw that someone could easily enter my house and walk off with a crapload of stuff without having to break a window; heartwarming because seeing how easy it is to pick a lock and yet how rarely people get burgled, made me realize that most people don’t break into homes because, well, most people are good people.

It makes you handy. If you’ve ever been locked out of your house or car, you know how annoying it is to be standing there like a chump, waiting for someone to show up with a key or a professional locksmith to arrive. Wouldn’t you love to be able to jimmy your way in yourself? Not only can this skill save you a lot of time and money, being able to solve a problem like that on your own is pretty dang satisfying. Plus, you can help out all your friends when they get locked out too.

Knowing how to pick a lock may even help you save a life one day. ITS Tactical has highlighted a few instances in which someone picked their way into an older parent’s home because they weren’t answering the phone, only to find their parent collapsed on the floor. Could they have kicked the door down or broken a window? Sure. But picking a lock just takes a few seconds and doesn’t leave any damage. So why wouldn’t you do that if you could?

It’s a cool and fun skill! There’s simply a “cool” factor of knowing how to pick a lock. Of all the Jason Bourne-esque skills every man wishes he had, it’s one of the most attainable. The idea that I can surreptitiously enter most doors without a key makes me feel all-powerful, like some sort of super ninja-spy.

It’s also a fun little hobby and something I like to do when I’m taking breaks from work or hanging out with the kids while they do their kid thing on the carpet. If you get really into lock picking, you can actually go to events and contests to test your skills against other lock pickers.

Below we walk you through basic lock-picking techniques for tumbler locks. I made a lock picking YouTube video a few years ago that shows how to do this step-by-step.

The Legality of Lock Picking

There’s a common misconception that the only people who can legally own lock-picking tools are first responders or licensed locksmiths. The reality is that in most states, as long as you’re not trying to illegally enter someone’s home with your lock-picking set, you can legally own, carry, and use lock-picking tools.

There are, however, some states that have laws that make owning lock-picking tools prima facie evidence of criminal intent. If you’re caught with picks in these states and you want to avoid criminal charges, you have to prove that you didn’t plan on committing a crime.

Long story short: owning lock-picking tools and learning how to pick locks is perfectly legal and ethical as long as you do so without nefarious intent. Just be a decent human being. For a summary of lock-picking laws across the country, see here.

How to Pick a Pin Tumbler Lock

Pin tumbler locks are the most common locks found on the front doors of homes. So it makes for a good first lock to learn how to pick.

How a Pin Tumbler Lock Works

You don’t really need to understand how basic pin tumbler locks work to successfully pick them, but it does help.

The design of the basic pin tumbler lock has been in use since 4000 BC. Of course, it’s gotten more complex over the millennia. The design that is used in most cylinder locks — like the one on your front door — has been around since 1861, and it hasn’t changed much. Basically, most of the world is using a technology that’s been around for a century and a half to keep their most prized possessions safe and secure.

Here’s the anatomy of most run-of-the-mill pin tumbler locks:

Anatomy of pin tumbler locks with labelings.

Pin tumbler locks consist of an outer cylindrical casing (colored green) in which a plug is housed. The small gap between the outer casing and the plug is called the shear line. Remember that. It will come in handy here in a bit. The plug has an opening for the key. When the proper key is inserted into the plug, the plug can rotate, thus unlocking the lock. On top of the plug, a series of five or six holes are drilled. The holes contain key pins (colored red) of different lengths. They’re called key pins because they touch the key when you insert a key into the plug. Above each key pin is a driver pin that’s spring-loaded. Pins are also sometimes referred to as “binding pins.”

So you have an idea of how the pins look in action, here’s a gif of me inserting a pick into a see-through practice lock:

pin tumble lock cross section gif

In the diagram above, there’s no key in the plug. Because of the different key pin lengths, the driver pins cross the shear line, making it impossible for the plug to rotate. If you put a wrong key into a lock, the notches on the key won’t lift up the key pins at the right height, causing them to protrude through the shear line as you can see in the diagram below:

Anatomy of wrong key entering in pin tumbler lock.

In order for the plug to rotate, you need to lift each of the key pins and driver pins to the correct height — until the gap between the key pins and driver pins reaches the shear line. When all of the pins reach this position, the plug can rotate. That’s what happens when you put a properly cut key into a lock:

Inner view of Right key entering in lock.

Pretty simple, huh?

When you pick a lock, all you’re doing is using tools, instead of a key, to line up the gap between the key pins and driver pins with the shear line between the outer casing and the plug. That’s it. And it’s super easy to do.

Tools Needed for Picking a Pin Tumbler Lock

There are various tools you can use to pick a lock. For this post, we’re going to focus on using the most common lock-picking tools: a tension wrench and pick rakes. 

Below is my wallet-sized lock-picking set that I got from SEREPick while I was at the ITS Muster. The picks are made of titanium. There’s one tension wrench and several rakes with different numbers of ridges, which allow you to pick several pins at a time. There’s also a pick that allows you to pick one pin at a time. Some locks will require you to do that.

Wallet-sized, titanium made lock pick.
If you’re looking for something a little sturdier and robust, you can find lock-picking sets several places online (even Amazon). If you want to be even more of a MacGyver, you could even make your own picks from a windshield wiper.

You can also use a paperclip to pick a lock. Check out our article on how to pick a lock with a paperclip.

Lock-Picking Technique

Lock picking is more art than science. You definitely have to develop a “feel” for it. Each lock is different, but the same basic principles apply. The easiest way to pick a lock is to use the fast and dirty method: scrubbing.

1. Insert Tension Wrench into the Bottom of Key Hole and Apply Slight Pressure

Inserting Wrench into the bottom of Key Hole and apply slight pressure.

The tension wrench is the key (no pun intended) to successfully picking a lock. Thanks to video games, people wrongfully think it’s the pick, because that is the thing that’s actually lifting the key pins to line up with the shear line.

Here’s why the tension wrench is so important: as you’re lifting the pin sets with your pick you need to apply tension on the plug. If you’re applying the right amount of torque on the plug, once the driver pin passes the shear line, the plug will rotate slightly. When you pull your pick out, the key pin will drop back down, but the driver pin will catch the edge of the plug, thus staying above the shear line. Here’s a diagram of what it looks like:

Anatomy of tumbler lock driver pin with labeling.

You’ll keep lifting pins with your pick and applying pressure with your tension wrench, until all the driver pins have cleared the shear line.

So far so good? Alrighty.

So take your tension wrench and place it in the bottom of the key hole. Apply slight pressure in the direction you would turn the key if you had it. And by slight I mean slight. If you apply too much pressure, you’re just going to cause the driver pins to bind below the shear line. You need to have enough give to let the driver pins rise above the shear line, but have enough torque that when they start dropping down, an edge of the drive pin catches the plug as it starts to rotate.

How much is too much pressure? If your tension wrench is bending a lot, then you’re probably applying too much pressure. So lean on the side of applying less pressure than more.

2. Insert Pick at Top of Lock

Inserting pick at top of lock.

Pick your pick. I prefer the Bogota rake that has three ridges. This one has picked every lock that I’ve used it on very easily.

Slide the rake all the way to the back.

3. While Applying Slight Torque to Your Wrench, Scrub Your Pick Back and Forth in the Key Hole

Keep applying that slight pressure on your tension wrench. I use my left hand for that. With your right hand, scrub or rake the inside of the plug with your pick. As you pull the pick back, simultaneously lift up in order to apply pressure on the pins. It looks sort of like this motion:

pick a lock rake motion gif

4. Repeat Until All the Pins Set

Keep applying torque on your wrench and scrubbing the pins until they all set. You may need to apply more torque and pressure on the pins with your pick as you get near the last one or two pins that need to set. If you’re not making any progress, you probably applied too much torque with the wrench. Relax, let the pins reset, and start over again, focusing on not using too much pressure.

That’s it! Really. That’s all there is to it. You can successfully pick most pin and tumbler locks using this scrubbing method.

You may run across locks that require a little bit more finesse by picking each pin set one at a time. In these trickier locks, you may need to get more methodical by looking for the pin stack that resists the most and picking it first and then repeating the process until all the pins are successfully picked.

Practice, Practice, Practice

Locks displayed along with tool.

Like I said above, lock picking is more art than science. The best way to learn how to do it is to simply pick locks as much as possible. Buy yourself different pin and tumbler locks at the hardware store and keep them on your desk or by your couch. When you’re taking a break from work or while you’re watching TV, practice picking. I’ve got three or four locks in my drawer that I’ll bust out during the day for practice sessions.

You’re one step closer to becoming Jason Bourne. Remember, use this knowledge for fun or for legal entries. If you’re going to burgle, only burgle hamburgers. Robble, robble.

Frequently Asked Questions

What can I pick a lock with?

Your best bet is a lock-picking set that includes a tension wrench and a set of rakes. My favorite is the set from SEREPick. In a pinch, you could fashion some lock picks with a paper clip, bobby pin, or even windshield wiper blades. In my experience, picking a lock with paper clips is more difficult because they have a tendency to break in the lock. 

Is lock picking legal? 

Depends on which country or state you live in. In most instances, as long as you’re picking a lock and don’t have criminal intent, you’re fine. In some states, owning a set of lock picks is prima facie evidence of criminal intent and things get more complicated. Be sure to check local laws before buying a lock-picking set. 

Can you pick a lock with a credit card?

Not tumbler locks. But some locks on internal doors can be opened by jimmying a credit card between the lock and the door. Here’s how to use a credit card to open these doors.

Further Reading

If you want to get more in-depth in the art of lock picking, check out these two sources:

CIA Lock Picking Field Operative Training Manual

The MIT Guide to Lock Picking (This baby goes really in-depth into the mechanics and physics of why we’re able to pick locks. Very thorough. Definitely recommend reading it

Thursday, December 11, 2025

"Stocking Stuffer Ideas for Guys"

 I liked a lot of this stuff although the "Tom Selleck" orniment gave me pause...Different stroke for different folks I suppose.  Although I really liked the "Casio Watch " it was seriously Retro.

    I shamelessly clipped this from "Art of Manliness"

Stocking stuffers often get overlooked in the rush to see the bigger gifts Santa’s left (be sure to check out our ideas for those). But they’re one of my favorite parts of Christmas. There’s something so fun about little gifts small enough to be stuffed in a giant sock. Yet once a man ages out of the novelty toys of his youth, it can be hard to know how to fill his stocking with things that are both neat and useful. For that reason, we’ve created this guide that includes 50 stocking stuffers a father, husband, or brother will find both practical and delightful. While every stocking should have one or two just-for-fun items, too many stocking stuffers are bits of junk that get thrown in a desk drawer, and then, once the feeling of guilt wears off, put in a trash can or tag sale. So the things we’ve chosen are those a man will enjoy using the moment he pulls them from his stocking and for a long time afterwards.

Pocket Knife

Every man should carry a pocket knife. Huckberry carries a number of nice pocket knives like the Leatherman Skeletool.

Pocket Ref

Book of "Pocket Ref" by Thomas J.Glover.

I love a good reference book and my favorite by far is the Pocket Ref, 4th Edition by Thomas J. Glover. This small, black book is crammed with just about every piece of information a man might want to know. Want to know about different lumber types? How about how to tie the fifty most common knots? Need a formula to determine the area of an oblique triangle? It’s all there in the Pocket Ref Guide and much, much more. Sure, you can find this info online these days, but this guide serves as a great book to have by the toilet so you can thumb through it while taking care of business.

Camp Snap Screen-Free Digital Camera

A green and black Camp Snap camera is displayed in front of a wooden background decorated with pine branches and red berries—an ideal choice for stocking stuffers for men this holiday season.

Remember when taking pictures meant you actually had to wait to see them? The Camp Snap brings that back. It’s a simple, screen-free digital camera that fits in your pocket, takes about 500 shots on a single charge, and stores a couple thousand total. No screen to stare at, no temptation to edit or post. Just point and click. You’ll have to wait to see the pics after you get home.

IronMind Captains of Crush Hand Gripper

A packaged Captains of Crush hand gripper by IronMind is displayed on a wooden surface with evergreen branches and red berries, making it one of the perfect stocking stuffers for men this holiday season.

The Captains of Crush grippers are the gold standard for building serious grip strength. Made from aircraft-grade aluminum and precision-machined steel springs, they feel like something you’d find in a blacksmith’s gym bag. They come in eleven different resistance levels. Even the lighter models will humble you fast. But with consistent use, they’ll toughen your hands, strengthen your forearms, and make every handshake feel like a statement. They’re small enough to keep on your desk or toss in a gym bag, and they’ll last a lifetime.

Casio A158WA Series Watch

A silver Casio digital wristwatch displays 10:58:50 PM, resting on a wooden surface with evergreen branches and red berries above—an ideal pick for stocking stuffers for men.

The Casio A158WA is proof that style doesn’t have to be expensive. For under thirty bucks, you get a stainless-steel throwback that looks like it was plucked straight off your dad’s wrist in 1985. It’s light, reliable, and has just enough retro charm to stand out without trying too hard. You can wear it mowing the lawn or with a suit — either way, it somehow works. I own watches that cost twenty times more, but this one gets a surprising amount of time in my rotation. Simple, timeless, and indestructible — the A158WA is the best cheap watch you’ll ever actually love wearing.

Nose/Ear Hair Trimmer

Growing little sprouts from our nostrils and ears is just part of the natural life cycle of human males. While that hair growth can’t and shouldn’t be totally eradicated, it can easily be managed. Despite a number of trimming options, by far the best is the electric trimmer. They’re easy to use, get the job done fast, and don’t have any of the pinching or yanking of the other options.

Working Hands Cream

O'Keeffe's "Working Hands" hand cream.

After a long day of house projects, a hard session of weightlifting, or a few hours spent on a woodworking project, even the toughest man’s hands need moisturizing relief. Working Hands is made for especially dry and cracked paws and will help heal and repair any damage inflicted from manly labors.

Khlip Ultimate Clipper

You may never have thought much about your nail clipper, but maybe you should. The Khlip makes for the ultimate upgrade. Superior ergonomics, clean-cutting blades, and a built-in cavity to hold the clippings make this the world’s best toenail tamer. 

Huckberry Beanie

A Japanese-made beanie that blocks out the cold and keeps you stylish in the process. It’s also durable as heck. Include it in your loved one’s stocking this year, and he’ll be chomping at the bit to go outside and snowshoe or split some wood for the fireplace. 

Sportsman Cologne

Sportsman Cologne adds a splash of adventure to your day. Handcrafted in small batches in Austin, Texas, this rugged scent features notes of leather, musk, flint stone, red clay, and pine. This has been Brett’s go-to cologne for fall and winter for several years.

Atech 5-in-1 AirTag Multi-Tool

A keychain with keys, a blue fob, a black Apple AirTag, and a multi-tool rests on wooden boards with pine and red berries in the background—perfect stocking stuffers for men this holiday season.

Quit using your house key to hack open Amazon boxes. This compact Atech tool clips to your keyring, holds your AirTag, and actually gets the job done. It’s got a box opener, nail puller, 10mm wrench, and a couple of other tricks — all in solid metal. Small, useful, and way better than ruining your keys.

Bellroy Hide & Seek Wallet

The Hide & Seek Wallet is a natural starting point for those looking to slim their wallet. It’s conventional, yet loaded with hidden features and compartments that will Houdini away your extra bulk. Cut from premium vegetable tanned cow leather, it’ll protect your bills and plastic and photo of your sweetheart for years to come. This version of the Hide & Seek sports an RFID-blocking upgrade that protects your personal information contained in RFID enabled identification cards, passports and smart cards.

J. L. Lawson Decision Coin

J. L. Lawson decision coin.

Minted from solid metal, the decision coin is a far more fun way to make coin flip decisions. Beyond that, it can be kept in a wallet as a reminder of the role that fate plays in all of our lives.

Survival Kit in a Sardine Can

Survival Kit in a sardine silver can.

This air-tight, waterproof, crushproof sardine can is packed with 25 survival items, including a fishhook, signal mirror, fire starter cube, and first aid supplies. Now, because of the variety and quality of the items in the can, this is far more of a novelty item than an actual survival kit. But it’s pretty cheap and a lot of fun; every stocking needs at least one item that’s simply designed to delight and act as a conversation piece. This fits the bill nicely. 

Shaving Cream

Shaving cream by the Art of shaving.

Most men lather up using some green goop from a can. These mass-produced shaving creams smell like you should be cleaning the floor with them. Share the pleasure of shaving with natural shaving creams and soaps with manly scents like almond or sandalwood. They cost more than the drugstore variety, but last far longer. My personal favorite is the sandalwood-scented shaving cream from Art of Shaving. 

Firestarter and Striker 

Knowing how to start a fire in a variety of ways is manly. The Firestarter and Striker tool set from Rill Simple Tools will make sure you’re always prepared to start a fire in a wilderness survival situation. The aluminum striker ignites magnesium in all conditions, regardless of wind, rain, snow, or temperature.

Varsity Disposable Fountain Pens

Varsity disposable fountain pens.

I love writing with a fountain pen. It makes writing even a lowly grocery list feel like a dignified affair. Unfortunately, a decent fountain pen can cost upwards of $50. If you want the fountain pen experience without the cost (and worry of losing an expensive pen) check out Varsity disposable fountain pens from Pilot. A 3-pack costs only $8 and writes almost as smoothly as more expensive fountain pens. These make a great stocking stuffer for a man who’s been curious about fountain pens, but hasn’t had the dough to try out an expensive one.

Davek Solo Umbrella

A closed black Davek umbrella with a wrist strap rests on a wooden surface, surrounded by evergreen branches and red berries—an ideal pick for stocking stuffers for men.

Most umbrellas are disposable. The Davek Solo isn’t.

Built from high-grade steel, fiberglass, and aluminum, its patented wind-combat frame shrugs off gusts that would leave a drugstore umbrella in the gutter. The carbon-reinforced ribs flex without snapping, and the water-repellent microweave canopy sheds rain like waxed canvas. This bad boy will protect you from the elements for years to come.

Zippo Pocket Handwarmer

Zippo Pocket Handwarmer.

This handsome handwarmer from Zippo makes the perfect stocking stuffer for the man who spends a lot of time in the freezing cold. My dad would have loved this in his game warden days on those cold mornings checking duck hunters.  

Tactical Flashlight

Tactical Black Flashlight.

Besides helping you find your car keys in a dark parking lot when you accidentally drop them, a small tactical flashlight can also serve as a useful self-defense tool. Shine the bright light from the tactical flashlight in a would-be attacker’s eyes to temporarily blind him and give yourself enough time to run or counter-attack. High quality tactical flashlights can cost well over $100. For most folks, that’s probably too much for a stocking stuffer. At about $40, the Streamlight 88301 Protac Tactical flashlight puts itself on the potential stocking stuffer bubble. While it doesn’t emit 500 lumens like its more expensive cousins, the 88301 does offer enough light output (180 lumens) to blind an attacker momentarily. 

Hitch Hair Clay

A jar of hair styling clay labeled "All Day Clay" sits on a wooden surface, surrounded by festive green branches and red berries, making it the perfect stocking stuffer for men.

If you’re looking for a hair product that provides hold, while maintaining a natural look, pick up a jar (or two of Hitch All Day Clay). Besides giving you a great coif, it has a clean fragrance with notes of bergamot, vetiver and sandalwood that goes well with anything. 

Everyday Carry Items

Carrying items like pocket knife, keys and compass.

According to the Every-Day Carry website, “Everyday Carry, or EDC, generally refers to small items or gadgets worn, carried, or made available in pockets, holsters, or bags on a daily basis to manage common tasks or for use in unexpected situations or emergencies. In a broader sense, it is a lifestyle, discipline, or philosophy of preparedness.” If you know a guy who ascribes to the EDC philosophy, nothing will delight him more than seeing some cool new pocket-sized things in his stockingWe’ve already covered pocket knives, flashlights, and handkerchiefs, but there are many more handy and neat things available

Blackwing Pencils 

Blackwing's pencil and sharpener.

These aren’t the standard yellow #2 pencils that you grew to hate during middle school. Just as fountain pens are a step up from the leaky ballpoints you buy in bulk, these Blackwing pencils are an upgrade over that old Ticonderoga. Made with California cedar wood and high-quality Japanese graphite, they deliver a surprisingly smooth, pencil-paradigm-changing writing experience. There’s a reason these iconic pencils have had a cult following since the 1930s. Be sure to grab the two-step sharpener as well.

SABANI 35,000mAh Portable Charger

Two white portable power banks with digital displays and built-in charging cables rest on a wooden surface, framed by pine branches and red berries—perfect stocking stuffers for men this holiday season.

The SABANI Power Bank packs a massive 35,000mAh battery — enough juice to charge your phone multiple times — yet it’s about the size of an iPhone. It’s got four built-in cables (Lightning, USB-C, USB-A, and Micro) plus three extra ports, so you can charge up to six devices at once without digging through a tangled mess of cords. Great for keeping your devices charged while you’re on a backpacking trip. 

BioLite HeadLamp 

A black BioLite headlamp with an adjustable strap is displayed against a wooden background decorated with pine branches and red berries—perfect as one of the best stocking stuffers for men this season.

A headlamp’s one of those tools you don’t think much about until you really need it. The BioLite 300 fixes the usual annoyances — dead batteries, accidental power-ons, and clunky weight. It’s USB-rechargeable, locks so it won’t turn on in your pack, and weighs just 50 grams. The battery sits neatly in the back of the moisture-wicking band, so it’s comfortable enough to forget you’re wearing it.

Drugstore Cologne

Old spice classic drugstore cologne.

We wrote about six forgotten and manly drugstore colognes and aftershaves in 2012. It was a big hit. Cheap drugstore cologne was a staple in my dad’s stocking growing up, and I remember getting my first bottle of Brute in my stocking when I was twelve. Any of the old drugstore standbys make a great stocking stuffer gift. You can’t go wrong with Old Spice

Instant Read Thermometer

Instant Read Thermometer by Thermpro.

Every backyard barbecuer needs a good meat thermometer. The usual variety, though, can be sort of fickle to use. You never know if you’ve waited long enough, or even how accurate it is since the needles tend to move a bit. With an instant read version, you don’t have to worry about that at all. Stick it in, and a couple seconds later you have an accurate reading. Can also be used with baked goods, homebrewed beer, and other foodstuffs that require precise temperature readings.

Analog Alarm Clock

Black analog alarm clock by Braun.

Give the gift of better sleep! Most folks’ smartphones are in their rooms with them come bedtime. Whether diddling around and staying up too late (and sacrificing sleep) or using its alarm to wake you up, your phone ends up being the last thing you see at night and the first thing you see in the morning. But plenty of research — both anecdotal and scientific — has shown that getting your phone out of your room makes for improved sleeping, waking, and mental and physical health. When you give the gift of a “throwback” alarm clock, you give the gift of better well-being.

Pocket Notebooks

We’ve extolled the benefits of the pocket notebook numerous times — they’re so handy for writing down ideas, to-do tasks, or just capturing your bored scribbling. There are a variety of great pocket notebooks out there. Field Notes are a classic Made in America brand that have a nice vintage look to them. Huckberry has a series of Field Notes that pay homage to American National Parks.  They’ve got a  Rite in the Rain are cool because, well, you can write in them in the rain without losing your world-changing idea. 

Snake River Farms Wagyu Beef Sticks

A package of SRF Snake River Farms American Wagyu beef smoked sausages sits on a wooden surface with evergreen branches decorating the edges, making it an ideal choice for stocking stuffers for men this holiday season.

Made from 100% American-raised Wagyu, these beef sticks are a long way from gas station jerky. Snake River Farms — a family-run outfit that helped pioneer American Wagyu — blends Japanese bloodlines with American cattle to create that rich, buttery flavor and perfect snap.

No artificial junk, just clean protein you can toss in your pack or desk drawer. Great for hikes, road trips, or the stretch between lunch and dinner when you need something that actually tastes like real beef.

Original Arbuckles’ Ariosa Blend Coffee

Arbuckles' ariosa blend coffee.

Getting a coffee-lover a bag of beans is a no-brainer. But which should you choose? Instead of grabbing a bag from Starbucks on Christmas Eve, try the Ariosa blend from the Arbuckles’ coffee company. Touted as the “Original Cowboy Coffee,” and the “Coffee That Won the West,” John and Charles Arbuckle first made their coffee way back in 1864, pioneering the practice of selling pre-roasted beans and putting them in 1lb sacks. Packages come with a peppermint stick, just as they did over a century ago. 

Old Fashioned Chewing Gum

Beemans, Black Jack, Clove's chewing gum.

Black Jack gum was first made by Thomas Adams all the way back in 1884. Made with aniseed, it was the first flavored gum made in the US and also the first gum to be offered in stick form. Adams’ company, American Chicle Co., then acquired Beeman’s in 1898 from its inventor, Edward E. Beeman. Beeman had incorporated pepsin in his recipe, a digestive enzyme, and Beeman’s became incredibly popular among pilots as an aid in both popping their ears and an antacid to settle their stomach acid during flight. Clove was another zippy flavor added by the company later on. These classic chewing gums were discontinued in the 70s and then brought back by Cadbury Adams and now make a great stocking stuffer for the man who wants to taste what Gramps was chomping on while playing stickball. Look for these gums at speciality candy stores.

David Protein Bar

A gold-wrapped protein bar labeled "David" rests on a wooden surface with fir branches and red berries above. The peanut butter chocolate chunk flavor makes it a perfect stocking stuffer for men this holiday season.

The macros on the David Protein bare are impressive: 150 calories, 28 grams of protein, and zero sugar. They only have 2 grams of fiber, but they’re surprisingly filling. The result is a perfect 1.0 PDCAAS score, meaning it delivers all the amino acids your body needs. My favorite flavor is the Peanubutter Chocolate.

Huckberry Weekender Sunglasses 

Purple huckberry weekender sunglasses. 

An all day, everyday pair of sunglasses that doesn’t break the bank. Lightweight but with a hardy construction, polarized lenses, and crucial hinge protection (which is where sunglasses always fail when/if they take a tumble), these can truly be taken anywhere. While a nice pair of shades makes for a good under-the-tree gift, everyone needs a pair or two that they don’t have to worry too much about.

Uncle John’s Truth, Trivia, and the Pursuit of Factiness

Every bathroom needs a bathroom reader — a handy little book that can be perused a few minutes at a time while doing your business. The classic in the genre is the Uncle John’s series, which is now in its 32nd edition. With short tidbits of interesting facts and longer tales of daring and misdeed, there’s always something fascinating to be found in its pages, no matter how long the visit. 

Wythe New York Camp Socks

A pair of beige socks with green heels and toes and a bird and tree pattern, perfect as stocking stuffers for men, placed on a wooden surface with pine branches and red berries above.

The kind of socks you want to live in all winter. Knit in North Carolina from recycled cotton, these Wythe Camp Socks are soft, sturdy, and built for both the couch and the woodpile. The jacquard-knit evergreen pattern gives them just enough seasonal flair without going full ugly-sweater. Warm, durable, and quietly festive — the perfect stocking stuffer for anyone with cold feet.

BFWood Clothes Brush

A wooden brush with black bristles and a leather loop rests on a wooden surface, accented by pine branches and red berries above—perfect as unique stocking stuffers for men.

A good clothes brush is one of those old-school tools that every man should own but few actually do. This one from BF Wood makes a great case for bringing the habit back.

Crafted from solid beech wood and fitted with pure boar bristles, it hits that perfect middle ground — soft enough not to damage delicate fabrics like wool or cashmere, stiff enough to sweep away lint, fuzz, and dust. A quick pass over a jacket or sweater before heading out the door will leave it looking sharper and lasting longer.

Roark’s Cove Solid Cologne

Square silver soap bar engraved with “F & R,” placed on a wooden surface with pine branches and red berries—perfect as unique stocking stuffers for men this holiday season.

Cologne, without the glass bottle or the splashy mess. Fulton & Roark’s solid fragrance is compact, travel-ready, and built for men who actually move around. Just rub some on you. This fragrance sits in the amber-woody-earthy family — bright at the top with bergamot, cloudberry, and pink pepper, grounded by oak chips, tonka bean, and cedarwood. The result is warm, clean, and quietly masculine; it smells like a hike through pine and sun-warmed rock after a fresh shave.

Lock Pick Training Kit

At AoM, we’re aficionados of the fine art of lock picking. This clear lock pick training set you can fine tune your lock picking craft by seeing how the tumblers and springs move as you rake your way to opening the lock. Set comes with clear training lock, tension wrench, and four picks. 

Spy Coin

A 2022 Kennedy half dollar coin and a round brass container, perfect as stocking stuffers for men, are placed on a wooden surface with pine branches and red berries at the top.

It looks like spare change, but it isn’t. This clever little gadget uses real U.S. Kennedy half-dollars that snap apart to hide a micro-SD inside—clean, simple, and delightfully sneaky. Stick a card in there between shoots, drop it in a gear case, and nobody will guess your film negatives (or files) are riding shotgun in a coin.

Ammo

Remington UMC's 250 rounds ammo packet.

Ammo is kind of expensive and you want plenty of it on hand for those impromptu trips to the gun range. Make sure you get the right kind of ammo, though. It’d be a bummer to get boxes of 9mm bullets when your gun is a .38 special. I’m hoping Santa drops a few boxes of shotgun shells in my stocking this year. 

Harmonica 

Harmonica by Marine Band.
The tin sandwich has a long and rich history, especially in the American South and West. The beauty of this instrument is threefold: it’s relatively inexpensive (even for a quality model), it’s small and portable (easily fitting into nearly any pocket), and it’s one of the easiest instruments to learn (to the point of playing recognizable tunes). Get one for everyone in the family and have some Christmas singalong time right then and there.

Tom Selleck Ornament

A Christmas tree ornament shaped like a man's bust with curly hair, a mustache, and a red patterned shirt—perfect as unique stocking stuffers for men—hangs in front of a wooden background with pine branches and red berries.

Your tree could use a little more mustache. This hand-painted glass ornament from Cody Foster & Co. captures Tom Selleck in all his 1980s glory — Hawaiian shirt, chest hair, and the most famous ’stache in television history. It’s equal parts classy and ridiculous, which is exactly what makes it perfect. Hang him up and let a little Magnum P.I. energy patrol your Christmas tree.

Wall Mount Bottle Opener

Silver wall mount bottle opener.

A classic wall mount bottle opener placed right next to the fridge eliminates the hassle of twisting off a bottle cap, plus it makes opening a cold one a bit more enjoyable. 

Duncan Yo-Yo

Duncan Imperial's red yo-yo.

Even as a grown man, I enjoy getting a kid’s toy in my stocking. It’s fun to have something to play with on Christmas morning and it just makes me feel like a boy again. You can’t go wrong with stuffing a stocking with an Imperial yo-yo from Duncan Yo-Yos. Besides giving a dad or uncle a chance to show off some cool tricks to the kiddos on Christmas morning, throwing the yo-yo is a surprisingly great activity for quieting the mind when you’re sorting through a problem. 

Estwing Hammer

Estwing's Silver-bluish hammer.

Every man should have a high-quality hammer in his garage or tool chest. It’s not always easy to throw down $20 on a hammer when there’s a $7 version right next to it at the hardware store. It’s worth the extra bucks though, making it a great stocking stuffer. Practical, but also just kinda fun. Bonus: Estwing tools are made right here in the USA.

Tins of Shoe Polish

KIWI's black shoe polish.

I don’t know about you, but I always seem to be out of shoe polish whenever I actually need it. I’ll make a mental note to pick some up on my next trip to the grocery store, and of course, I’ll go to the store and forget to buy some. The occasion will arise again when I need to shine my shoes and the vicious cycle repeats itself. It’d be nice just to have copious amounts of shoe polish tins in my shoe shine box so I’d never have to worry about buying a can ever again. I’m pretty sure if Santa left two or three cans in my stocking each year my wish would be a reality. At $4 a tin, it’s the perfect stocking stuffer.

Universal Socket

This Universal Socket is the ultimate tool for the DIY enthusiast. Its versatile design adjusts to grip hex nuts, hooks, and other various shapes, making it the perfect stocking stuffer. Crafted for strength and durability, it’s compatible with any drill and nuts ranging from 7mm-19mm. A compact powerhouse, it’s bound to become an essential in any man’s toolbox.

Knife Sharpening Kit

Smith's knife sharpening kit.

If you’re going to put a pocket knife in a man’s stocking, he’ll also need a good sharpening stone to keep his blade in tiptop shape. You might also include a slip of paper with a link to our guide on how to sharpen a pocket knife. Smith’s Sharpening Kit has everything a man needs to start sharpening his knife: a medium-grained stone, a fine-grained stone, and oil.

Balsa Wood Airplanes

Balsa wood jetfire airplanes.

Another fun toy to give a man in his stocking stuffer is a balsa wood airplane. They’re easy to put together and you’ll have a blast tossing them around the house. The Duluth Trading Co. is offering a squadron of 12 made by a company that’s been making the planes here in America for decades.