Rule number 1. Get an education, any education...make an attempt to better yourself. Learn all you can while you can, you will be surprised how far it will take you. When you get an education, even at work, you are making an attempt to improve yourself and things like that are noticed by the bosses and it might open up opportunities. Learning takes work and you would be surprised how many people are too lazy to continue learning, then they wonder why they no longer earn more and move up. If you quit learning, you will stagnate and then move backwards because there are people coming up that are hungry and you will find yourself obsolete and unemployed and wondering what happened.
Rule Number 2. Get a job, any job..work it until you find a better job. While you are working your job, always look for opportunities to better yourself at work, learn how the process works, make the extra step to learn all facets of the job, become indispensable to your employer. Or if you really don't like the job, work it hard, learn about it and look for a better job. You keep working for the better job. While you are at it, keep on learning so you don't become expendable and replaceable. Form good work habits, always come to work a bit early. it doesn't hurt to get ahead of the power curve for your job. It also shows that you are enthusiastic about your work and that is noticeable.
Rule Number 3 Don't get pregnant. This rule applies to both
girls and guys. For girls, getting pregnant early unless they are lucky
and have a great family structure in place, will be trapped in a cycle
of poverty. Sure they get benefits from the government, but the money
they get is just enough to keep them trapped in a continuous cycle.
"Why work when I get money from Uncle Sugar." they sell their dreams and
soul for an EBT card. Once the baby arrives, it will be difficult to
continue getting an education to improve themselves and they will be
trapped where they are or even slide into a worse situation than they
have now. I remembered this girl in high school, she wanted to get into
NASA, and become an astronaut. She was brilliant and we could see her
making it. But she got pregnant and had to drop out in the 11th grade.
A few years later I was working at Domino's Pizza after graduating high
school and a year of college then ran out of money. I was delivering
pizza as I was making ready to join the Army for the G.I. bill so I can
go back to school. Well I was delivering a pizza to a dilapidated
trailer and this same girl came to the door. I immediately recognized
her and asked her how it was going. She told me that she had her baby
and was pregnant again. I then asked her " where is your husband?" She
commented that he was probably at the bar getting drunk. I continued
to make small talk for a few minuted then I left. I had an epiphany as I
was leaving. Where she is now is the highpoint of her existence. It
is a slide to grinding poverty and obscurity from here and I was a bit bummed. This
rules also works with guys, if you get a girl pregnant, you also are
responsible and you will have a 18 year commitment and if you and the
girl break up, expect to have child support and possible garnishments to
deal with. Rather than going to school to get a higher education, you
have to enter the work force at a lower paying job to make ends meet and
your dreams are on hold perhaps indefinitely.
Third and now fourth generation welfare consider themselves 'well off', cause Uncle Sugar gives them more money for more kids! Sigh
ReplyDeleteHey Old NFO;
DeleteYep, and they find themselves trapped and the donks have a ready voting base to keep their power.
I'm good all three.
ReplyDeleteThe only thing I added in my Uncle Gerry speech to my niece was don't get arrested. A police record can interfere with #1 & #2.
Hey Gerry;
DeleteI should have added that one but you are correct, getting a run in with the PoPo can add problems with the jobs because of background checks.
N/al Bortz has a blog if you want follow it.
ReplyDeleteHey Ron;
DeleteI used to catch it when he was associated with WSBRadio, but I don't know the www of his new blog.